Speaking as someone who's never done anything remotely like this before (and who is obviously new to the site/forums as well!), I have a ton of questions. Hopefully, they're not TOO annoying.
1) Is this being filmed/photographed for the site, or is it more just a meet-and-greet, as it were?
2) Is it more a case of everybody just jerks off, a case where most guys jerk off while some guys get to actually fuck you/get oral, or a case where most/all guys involved actually get oral/penetration at least a bit?
3) Since this is going to involve a lot of guys standing around, if someone gets so self-conscious about the whole thing that they can't cum, is that something that would be really frustrating/make you angry for wasting your time and a spot that could have gone to someone else, or would it just sort of result in a shrug and a "Hey, it happens" sort of reaction?
4) Conversely, if someone is so overwhelmed from the whole thing that they lose it 5 seconds after you touch their dick, would
that be more annoying or just an "oh well" moment?
5) If someone cums, then feels like they're ready to go again, do they get a second go? A third? Fourth? Or is this "one and done" because you'd actually like to get some sleep that night?
6) If someone has trouble cumming from jerking off while standing up, but is potentially able to cum from a bit more oral attention, would that be a case where you'd devote more time to them personally, or would you just write them off?
7) Will there be any fluffers, or is this just a case where each guy has to look out for himself?
8) Is there a dress code (or just expectations/preferences)? After all, jeans or sweats and a t-shirt might be comfortable (and easy to remove and put back on after), but they're also a bit low-class. More upscale clothes (khakis or dress pants, a nice shirt, etc) look better, but might have more issues with cleaning up after (and it might not matter what clothes people are wearing anyway, if everybody is naked/mostly naked). Sneakers or shoes? Which is the best to wear - boxers, briefs, "tighty whiteys", or just going commando?
9) If the event is taking place in a private residence in NYC, is it allowable to at least mention which borough it's going to happen in? After all, for someone from outside the city, it's generally a lot easier to get to Manhattan (and harder to get lost) than it is to get to Brooklyn or the Bronx. And Staten Island is generally easier to navigate in a car than it is by train.
10) When it comes to getting tested at a clinic beforehand, how long does it usually take to get results (ie, how long before the actual day should someone go to get tested)? How much does testing usually cost? Are there any places in the NY/NJ area that you (or anyone else) would recommend for being reliable in the past?
11) Did all these questions annoy to the point where you'd rather not have someone like me show up at all, or is it perfectly acceptable for a newbie to have a ton of questions like this?
Honestly, I'd love to try something like this at least once, just for the experience of it, but I also have absolutely no idea how I would react at the actual event (whether nerves would render me completely incapable of performing or whether I'd take to it like a natural), or what sort of things are common knowledge/expected. So I don't really want to be an inconvenience through ignorance, or by having performance issues if that's something that is generally frowned upon.
